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What I Learned From Participating In Dressember

January 2, 2016 By Lisa Leave a Comment

What I Learned From Participating In Dressember

Dressember Recap from Flabby Fashionista

When I decided to participate in Dressember, my goal was to raise money to help women who are oppressed and abused.  I had grand intentions of taking pictures myself in fabulous dresses and sharing them with you but reality was something a little different.

For starters, while there were some really warm days in December, there were also some super cold days in December.  Cold days necessitated that I wear leggings and some dresses just don’t look right with leggings. Also, I’m not sure why, but I couldn’t figure out what shoes to wear with my maxi dresses so I only wore 2 maxi dresses and I only wore each one once .  In the summer, they look great with my flip flops and open toes shoes, but they looked weird with closed toed shoes. I think Dressember would work even better in the summer although they’d need a different name. 🙂

I also thought that I wouldn’t get tired of wearing dresses, but on the super cold days, I just wanted to bundle up in jeans and a sweater.  I also didn’t wear all of my dresses since some of them didn’t look right with leggings and it was too cold to wear dresses with bare legs.

Another thing that I didn’t take into account was how absolutely insane the month of December is for me.  I typically didn’t think about taking a picture until it was practically bedtime…and half the time I was already in my pjs.

The biggest eye opener for me was the amount of clothing I wore.  I wore a total of 11 dresses, but 6 of the dresses I wore multiple times. It made me realize I could survive with a lot less clothing!

Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not planning on getting rid of all of my clothes (although my husband would be thrilled if I did), but I am going to try an experiment this month.  Sometime in the next 24 hours, I’m going to go through my closet and put together 10 outfits including shoes. I’m also going to put 5  or 6 workout outfits together since we hit the gym 7 days a week.  Then I’m going to take all of my other clothes and I’m going to put them in bins in the attic. I’m guessing that this will mean a lot less mess and a lot less time spent getting dressed.  I’ll keep you posted on  how it goes.

 

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Filed Under: Dressember, Fashion, Real Life

10 Essentials to Keep in Your Purse

February 26, 2015 By Lisa Leave a Comment

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I’m constantly on the go and because of that, my purse takes a lot of abuse. It serves as a catch-all for everything I might possibly need on any given day.  One of my productivity secrets is to make sure you have everything necessary in your purse.  Here are a few of my favorite things to keep in my purse. (And I’ve also included a great purse in case you’re in need of one!)

Kate Spade - New York Cedar Street Saffiano Top-Zip Satchel

Kate Spade Saffiano Top-Zip Satchel

Clean, rounded lines define this easy to carry satchel.  It comes with scratch-resistant Saffiano leather, a great, smart and stylish choice for everyday finished.

 

Kate Spade – New York Cedar Street Saffiano Top-Zip Satchel – $368.00, Free shipping – Available at Saks Fifth Avenue


Mophie - Juice Pack Helium Charging Case (1500mAh) for Apple iPhone 5 - Purple

Backup battery power

The Mophie Juice Pack Battery Case extends the battery life of your iPhone 5s/5 for hours with up to 80% more power so you can keep talking, surfing and sending.  My Mophie Juice Pack Case has saved me more times than I can count!!!

 

 

 

Mophie – Juice Pack Helium Charging Case (1500mAh) for Apple iPhone 5 – Purple – $79.95, Free shipping – Available at Adorama


Aspire - Women's Hair Ties - 3-Pack Black (037110170)

Hair Ties

The stretchy ties come in a variety of colors so you can choose which best complements the day’s outfit.

 

 

Aspire – Women’s Hair Ties – 3-Pack Black (037110170) – $3.00, 6.99 shipping – Available at Sports Authority


Thrifty Zippers - Cute Blue Oilcloth Envelope System Wallet for Cash Budgeting and Extreme Couponing

Thrifty Zippers – Cute Blue Oilcloth Envelope System Wallet for Cash Budgeting and Extreme Couponing

If you follow the Dave Ramsey plan like I do, a cute cash envelopes system is a must.  I had a friend make mine for me, but this one is another great option!  

Thrifty Zippers – Cute Blue Oilcloth Envelope System Wallet for Cash Budgeting and Extreme Couponing – $39.95, 4.99 shipping – Available at Amazon.com Marketplace


Young Living - Thieves Spray 1 fl oz

Young Living – Thieves Spray 1 fl oz

Our family would be lost without our essential oil products.  We love Thieves spray!  It freshens breath, helps with sore throats, and also serves as a handy dandy on-the-go sanitizer!  

 

Young Living – Thieves Spray 1 fl oz – $13.99, Free shipping – Available at Amazon.com Marketplace


Plantronics - M165 Marque 2 Ultralight Bluetooth Headset

Plantronics – M165 Marque 2 Ultralight Bluetooth Headset

My productivity has doubled since I started using a bluetooth headset. For starters, it’s great to have my hands free all the time. Also, I listen to audiobooks and business podcasts while I’m at the gym and grocery store.  I can have conversations in the car without having to hold my phone up to my ear.  And because most bluetooth headsets only have a 7 hour lifespan, I try to always have a second one fully charged and in my purse! 🙂

 

Plantronics – M165 Marque 2 Ultralight Bluetooth Headset – $16.99, 4.99 shipping – Available at WirelessOEMStore.com


Gear - Mini Sewing Kit - A Portable Travel Kit You Can Keep In Your Pocket - Useful for Emergencies

Gear – Mini Sewing Kit – A Portable Travel Kit You Can Keep In Your Pocket – Useful for Emergencies – Compact Size for Easy Transportation, But Large Enough to Be Comfortably Usable in Any Situation – 90 Day Guarantee

If you’ve ever had a wardrobe malfunction, you know how embarrassing it can be.  This mini sewing kit will allow you to sew a button back on, use a safety pin to keep things together and you can even stitch up that seam that ripped in an inopportune place!

 

Gear – Mini Sewing Kit – A Portable Travel Kit You Can Keep In Your Pocket – Useful for Emergencies – Compact Size for Easy Transportation, But Large Enough to Be Comfortably Usable in Any Situation – 90 Day Guarantee – $8.69, 7.19 shipping – Available at Amazon.com Marketplace


Hempz - Lip Balm - Set of 2 - .44 oz each by HEMPZ

Hempz – Lip Balm – Set of 2 – .44 oz each by HEMPZ

Hempz Lips Moisturizing Lip Balm is my go-to lip balm for dry lips.  It’s smooth and creamy and feels absolutely heavenly on dry chapped lips! I love that I can use it over or under my lipstick.

 

Hempz – Lip Balm – Set of 2 – .44 oz each by HEMPZ – $29.43, 4.49 shipping – Available at Amazon.com Marketplace


Aveda - Hand Relief Moisturizer - Travel Size, 1.4 Oz

Aveda – Hand Relief Moisturizer – Travel Size, 1.4 Oz

I hate it when my hands are dry!  This Aveda Hand Relief creme keeps my skin feeling soft and supple!  And I LOVE the way it smells!

 

Aveda – Hand Relief Moisturizer – Travel Size, 1.4 Oz – $11.99, 4.49 shipping – Available at Amazon.com Marketplace


Security - Mace 80381 Leather Plus Pepper Spray, Black

Security Mace

This model fits easily in your pocket or purse. It also features glow-in-dark locking safety cap that makes it easier to find and use in the dark.

 

Security – Mace 80381 Leather Plus Pepper Spray, Black – $7.99, 6.64 shipping – Available at Amazon.com


Luxor - Spiffies Toothwipes Towlettes, Natural Apple Flavor, 20 ea

Luxor – Spiffies Toothwipes Towlettes, Natural Apple Flavor, 20 ea

These toothwipes are perfect for when you’re in a pinch and you can’t brush your teeth.  They’re flouride free and can be used by kids or adults!

 

Luxor – Spiffies Toothwipes Towlettes, Natural Apple Flavor, 20 ea – $14.99, 5.10 shipping – Available at Fullfillment By Amazon


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Filed Under: Practical Tips, Real Life Tagged With: handbag, kate spade, purse

When You Feel Like a Failure

September 4, 2013 By Lisa Leave a Comment

When You Feel Like a Failure

I started this site to chronicle my weight loss journey and to share tips on fashion and fitness.  Unfortunately, since I’ve experienced more of a weight gain journey, I’ve been hesitant to post.  Really, who wants to hear “I gained another pound this week” or “I had to buy new pants because my other ones are too small.” ?  The truth is that things have been difficult lately.  It’s nothing major or horrible, it’s just life…and sometimes life is hard.  And when life is hard, the thought of losing weight is overwhelming.  And when I’m not actively working hard to lose weight, I seem to gain weight. And when I gain weight, I feel like a failure.

In my mind, I know that the number on the scale is in no way tied to my value as a person, but my mind and my feelings aren’t always on the same page.

I’ve made the realization that I’m only a failure if I refuse to try… if I give up and throw in the towel and refuse to give it one more shot…or ten more shots.

So today, I choose to be courageous.  I choose to continue to post even though I’m not making the progress I hoped to make.  I choose to make the positive changes I need to make to lose weight.  I choose to be vulnerable in sharing my feelings, and in doing so, I hope I can encourage one of you to be courageous as well.  I hope I can encourage you to continue even when it’s hard and it doesn’t seem like it’s worth it.

On those days when you feel like you’re a failure, please know that YOU ARE NOT.  You are valuable and loved.  You are not defined by your circumstances or your weight.  The Creator of the Universe made you in HIS image and He loves you more than you can imagine.

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Filed Under: Motivation, Quotes, Real Life, Self Image, Weight Loss, Weight Struggles Tagged With: failure, struggles, weight loss

Project 36 Update: 37 Days Left

June 7, 2013 By Lisa Leave a Comment

When I kicked off Project 36, I had no doubt in my mind that I would and could accomplish everything on my list. I knew some of the items on my list would be a stretch, but I needed a good challenge. I had no idea that our life was going to drastically change this year and that my time, my efforts, and most of my energy would be spent on the 2 new additions to our family. It seems like everything has fallen to the wayside since we added the twins to our family and now that life is moving along at a less chaotic pace (and also now that we’re only 37 days away from my 37th birthday), I thought I’d check in to see how I’m doing with Project 36.

1. Make my bed 36 days in a row.
2. Walk or walk/jog for at least 36 minutes, 36 days in a row.
3. Go on 36 dates with my hubby.
4. Make a realistic to-do list and accomplish it 36 days.
5. Do 36 fun things with my family.
6. Take 36 good pictures of my daughter Amina.
7. Take 36 good pictures of my daughter Khrystyna.
8. Take 36 good pictures of my husband Fred.
9. Get family photos taken before I’m no longer 36. 🙂
10. Do T-Tapp Basic Workout Plus 36 times.
11. Do T-Tapp Total Workout 36 times.
12. Do Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred 36 times.
13. Try 36 new recipes.
14. Memorize 36 Bible Verses.
15. Make a 36 day menu plan.
16. Do 36 days of C25K. (This will allow me to repeat weeks if necessary).
17. Do 36 consecutive days of clean eating. (no gluten or sugar)
18. Complete a 5k in under 36 minutes.
19. Do 36 consecutive days of at least 36 minutes of exercise.
20. Lose 36 pounds.
21. Lose another 36 pounds.
22. Lose yet another 36 pounds.
23. Read 36 books. (At least 10 of these were Chautona Havig books. I seriously love her writing!)
24. Jog 36 miles in 1 week.
25. Do 36 Random Acts of Kindness.
26. Send 36 Snail Mail Cards.
27. Do 36 “man pushups” in a row.
28. Take 36 walks with friends.
29. Play piano for 36 minutes on 36 days.
30. Get rid of 36 pieces of clothing (and socks don’t count).
31. Do 36 craft projects.
32. Save an extra $3600.
33. Take at least 36 pictures of myself in various outfits as I lose weight.
34. Call, write, or visit with my grandma 36 times.
35. Watch 36 hours of TV or movies (I don’t watch TV and I rarely watch movies, but I thought this would be a good way to unwind).
36. Spend 36 minutes doing non-blog writing on 36 different days.

As I looked through the list, I was shocked to see that I’ve only completed 4 of the 36 items. I think that if I really go after it for the next 37 days, I can accomplish 21 more of these goals. While I had hoped for a 36 out of 36 (A+), it looks like I’ll end up with 25 out of 36 (69% D).

While this may not seem that impressive, I realized that if I accomplish these 25 things I will have done the following:

  • Made my bed 36 days in a row
  • Walked 1300 minutes in 36 days
  • Gone on 36 dates with my hubby
  • Had 36 fun experiences with my family
  • Taken 108 good pictures of people in my family plus taken 36 pictures of myself.
  • Had family photos taken (even though I’m not at my goal weight)
  • Completed T-Tapp Basic Workout Plus 36 times
  • Completed Jillian Michael’s 30 Day Shred 36 times
  • Completed 36 Days of C25K
  • Completed 36 consecutive days of exercising at least 36 minutes
  • Made a 36 day menu plan
  • Read over 50 books
  • Made 36 peoples day with snail mail
  • Downsized my closet by 36 pieces of clothing (easy to do when you lose that much weight)
  • Enjoyed 36 consecutive days of Body by Vi Shakes
  • Lost Over 60 Pounds

So here’s to the next 37 days! I’m going to be a busy girl, but I’m looking forward to being able to say that I accomplished these things!

Flabby Fashionista

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Filed Under: 30 Day Shred, Body by Vi 90 Day Challenge, Couch to 5K, Exercise, Goals, Project 36, Real Life Tagged With: 30 Day Shred, c25k, goals, project 36

Getting Back to Comfortable…

October 22, 2012 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Getting Back to Comfortable…

I’ve discovered something interesting about myself over the last few months.  There are sizes that I’m thrilled to be in, sizes that I feel comfortable in, and sizes where I hate to even think about the way I look.  When I get to the “hate to even think about the way I look” stage, I tend to avoid photos.  {I’m currently in this stage}

Last year, after lots of hard work and discipline, I looked like this.

September 7,2011

This year, I look like this…and this is after losing 20 pounds.

October 4, 2012 (pictured with Kasey Trenum from Time2SaveWorkshops.com)

As you can see, I weigh a ton more in this picture.  While I’m tempted to hide this picture, I’m not going to.  It is what it is.

For the record, after getting home from that weekend, I decided to get super strict about my eating and exercising.  I’ve been gluten-free and sugar-free for 13 days and I’ve been exercising 4-5 days every week since I’ve been home!  I’m thrilled to report that I’ve lost 11.2 pounds since being home….which puts me less than 5 pounds away from my first 36 pound goal.

I also found out over the weekend that my brother is getting married in 11 weeks so I really need to step up my game! 🙂 I’ll definitely keep you posted.  I’m hoping that I’ll have amazing results over the next 11 weeks and that by the first weekend in January, I’ll be able to post a picture of me in my wedding finery alongside my picture from October 4 and see a complete transformation.

In the meantime, I’ve decided that I WILL NOT let the way I feel about the way I look keep me from making an effort to look cute every single day.

So those are my goals for the next 11 weeks…  What are yours?

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Filed Under: Plus Size Fashion, Real Life, Weight Loss, Weight Struggles Tagged With: real life

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